Let’s be real for a second.
You’re not a bad guy. You’re just not getting anywhere.
Maybe you text “Hey” like it’s a personality trait.
Or maybe you just don't know what to say.
You go on dates that feel like job interviews.
And deep down, you know something’s off. You can feel it when the energy drops.
You want to stand out, but you don’t know how without feeling fake.
You want to be confident, but not cocky.
You want to make a connection, not just another dead-end conversation.
I get it. Because that was me.
I Used to Be Told I Was Boring
I could feel it happening in real time.
That glazed-over look in someone’s eyes when they’ve checked out of a conversation you’re still talking in.
Brutal.
So I started doing what I now help brands do for a living.
I studied what makes people pay attention.
I studied storytelling, humor, and human psychology.
And I practiced. A lot.
I stopped trying to sound like everyone else and started showing up like myself.
Eventually, people stopped calling me boring and started calling me interesting.
I don’t say that to brag. I say it because I know this works.
I built an entire company around it. It’s called Don’t Be Boring Agency.
We help businesses stop blending in and start standing out.
And I realized something. The same thing killing brands is killing men’s dating lives.
Too many guys blend in.